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Meet Dr. Dunham

Welcome to The Center for Relational Health, PLLC,

I’m Dr. Shea Dunham, a North Carolina-based relationship consultant and therapist with more than 17 years of experience working with couples and individuals navigating relationship challenges. Over the years, I have come to understand that our desire for connection is deeply human. We are wired for relationships, and most of us long for connections that provide peace, emotional safety, vulnerability, trust, and a sense of belonging.

Yet sometimes, the relationships we value most can become sources of stress, conflict, and emotional pain. We may find ourselves caught in patterns that create distance rather than connection, even when both people genuinely want things to be different. That is where I come in.

As your relationship therapist, I do not tell you what you should do or make decisions for you. Instead, I walk alongside you as you explore your relationship, understand the patterns that keep you stuck, and develop healthier ways of connecting. My work is grounded in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), an evidence-based approach rooted in attachment theory that focuses on creating greater emotional security and connection.

At The Center for Relational Health, PLLC, (CFRH) our goal is to help you move beyond simply “coping and getting by” in your relationships. We work toward helping you understand yourself and your partner on a deeper level, communicate your needs, repair emotional disconnection, and create a relationship where both people can feel safe enough to be vulnerable and truly heard.

I’m committed to the simple belief that “when you know better, you do better.” Therapy is not simply about learning a few communication techniques. It is about creating meaningful experiences that can help you understand your story, heal old wounds, recognize unhealthy patterns, and discover new ways of relating.

By the end of our work together, my hope is that you will have a clearer understanding of what gets in the way of the relationship you desire and the skills to respond differently when challenges arise. Together, we will work toward healing past and present wounds, addressing attachment needs, breaking negative cycles, and creating healthier patterns of interaction.

You deserve relationships where you can feel connected, understood, valued, and emotionally safe. My role is to help you find your way there.

Are You Ready for a Different Kind of Relationship?

Are You Ready for a Different Kind of Relationship?

If you desire to:

  • Build deeper intimacy and create a relationship that feels more connected and fulfilling.
  • Strengthen your relationships with your partner, family member, or closest friend.
  • Focus on the strengths you both bring to the relationship, rather than allowing conflict to define your connection.
  • Break unhealthy patterns of interaction and create new ways of communicating and connecting that bring you closer instead of pushing you apart.
  • Better understand your attachment style and how it influences the way you experience relationships, communicate, respond to conflict, and connect with others.
  • Feel more emotionally safe, understood, and connected in the relationships that matter most to you.

Then I may be the therapist for you.

You don’t have to remain stuck in the same patterns. With the right support, relationships can change, heal, and grow.

When you’re ready to experience healthier, deeper, and more rewarding relationships, I’m here to help.

My Education & Experience

Dr. Shea M. Dunham, Ph.D., LCPC, LMFT, is currently an Associate Professor at a university in the North Carolina area. Previously (from 2008- 2018), she was an Associate Professor in the Division of Psychology and Counseling at Governors State University, where she won Faculty of The Year in 2010 in the Division of Psychology and Counseling and was nominated for the highest university award “University Faculty Excellence Award” several times.

Dr. Dunham has been a counselor educator for over 17yrs and is a member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy and American Counseling Association. Dr. Dunham specializes in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, working with parents and their adult children, and working with African Americans and intercultural couples.

Dr. Dunham has published and/or presented on such topics as African Americans and intimacy, poisonous parents and their adult children, emotional skillfulness in African American couples, and family social advocacy. She previously published a book, Poisonous Parenting: Toxic Relationships Between Parents and Their Adult Children. Dr. Dunham continues to add to the field of counseling and marriage and family therapy by seeing clients in a private practice setting. In addition, she also provides coaching for students who are struggling academically and/or with personal issues.

EDUCATION:

  • Ph.D. (December 2008) University of Akron: Counseling Education and Supervision, Specialization: Marriage and Family Therapy
  • MS.Ed (December 2007) University of Akron: Counseling, Specialization in Marriage and Family Therapy
  • MSW (December 2003) Washington University in St. Louis –George Warren Brown School of Social Work
  • BS (May 2001) Delaware State University: Social Work

CERTIFICATIONS

  • Gottman's Couples Method Therapy -Level 1
  • Prepare and Enrich
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (in progress)

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